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From Pain to Gain: Changing your perspective on the negatives of life, and using pain to your advantage By Dr. Lisa Cooney

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From Pain to Gain: Changing your perspective on the negatives of life, and using pain to your advantage By Dr. Lisa Cooney

Is there still pain lingering in the background of your being, even though you’ve freed yourself from the infliction? Have you been told who you should be, or how you should behave?  Do you feel like you’re walking on eggshells, but can’t seem to push yourself onto a new path? I have experienced many of these moments of pain in the past. I simply chose to believe lies for far too long, that disempowered me…That had me agreeing with others opinions of me that were UNTRUE.

I’ve emphatically demanded that me, my body, and the universe, create and empower me, as I choose to be. I speak up for those that can’t yet. I live for the eradication of abuse off of this planet. So, let us explore and uncover, what YOU can gain, from the pain of the lies that were embedded in you, that blurred the definition of the TRUE YOU. What could life be, if you chose to change the perspective on the negatives of life, and used the experiences for your advantage?

Let’s shift from pain to GAIN.

ENOUGH! It’s Time to Be A Radical Demand for Yourself

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Have you ever had one of those “ENOUGH!” moments?

You look at your life or your relationship, and it’s not what you desire.

You realize you’ve put other’s needs above your own. You haven’t included yourself and your desires in your choices.

And you say, “ENOUGH!”

But then what?

What do you do to get out of the cycle of abuse that led to this ENOUGH moment so you can create the life and relationship you truly desire?

My friend and colleague, Nirmada Kaufman (known as The Radical Demand Diva) had one of these ENOUGH moments a couple years ago. She knew that more was possible in her life and especially in relationship. She made the demand for things to change.

And they did! Shortly after her ENOUGH moment she met a man and they created a radically different kind of relationship. They went on to write the book, “Love in the Next 10 Seconds,” that guides others on how to create the relationship they desire.

All of this got created because Nirmada said ENOUGH and then was willing to be a Radical Demand for herself.

When you become a Radical Demand for yourself, you commit to including YOURSELF in all your choices. You don’t make other people’s needs more important than your own. Yet you also don’t disregard other’s needs.

When you are a Radical Demand for yourself you make choices that are both inclusive and expansive for everyone.

What might you change and create in your own life when you become a Radical Demand for yourself?

And how do you become a Radical Demand?

Join special guest, Nirmada Kaufman, and myself for my upcoming radio show, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything,” on Tuesday, June 23rd @ 10am PST/1pm EST.

We’ll share pragmatic tools and steps you can take to get clear on what it is you want, and how to prioritize yourself in your life, so you create the life and relationship you desire. Live callers will have the chance to receive facilitation from both of us.

Isn’t it time you became a Radical Demand for youself?

Click here to find out more: http://drlisacooney.com/my-radio-show/

A special offer from Nirmada for Voice America listeners only: When you purchase a Radical Demand Breakthrough Session, where we’ll breakthrough the biggest limitation that’s holding you back from living your phenomenal life, you will also receive 1 Month FREE of the Radical Demand Monthly Call ($75 value).

Go to RadicalDemand.com/Breakthrough to purchase a Radical Demand Breakthrough Session and send an email of your receipt to Nirmada@RadicalDemand.com to receive 1 Month FREE of the Radical Demand Monthly Call ($75 value). Get more information about the Radical Demand Monthly Call Here.

The Choice Is Yours

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I declared that “the revolution is here.” Being in this conversation about childhood sexual abuse is a revolution! We’re talking about a topic that has been shunned, dismissed, and hidden for far too long. By speaking about this, and bringing forth the secrets, we are putting an end to the silence. We are putting an end to the shame. And we are creating a whole new possibility for moving beyond abuse. I want you to be able to benefit from the insights, tips, and tools that I shared on the live show. So here are some gems from the revolutionary conversation:

The events of abuse get locked in your body and block you from living a joyful life. This is why it feels like you’re locked in an invisible cage that doesn’t have a key… your body has become the cage, holding in all these secrets, memories, and fear. Your body also takes on energies, emotions, and beliefs that belong to your perpetrator. You know that constant feeling of shame you carry around, like you’re the one who has done something wrong?

This doesn’t belong to you: it belongs to the person or people who abused you. On the show I introduced listeners to something called “The Clearing Statement,” which is an Access Consciousness tool. This releases these energies that aren’t yours from your body. I used this tool on the show to support callers in releasing old trauma and abuse that has been stored in their bodies for decades. Both the callers and the listeners benefit from this powerful tool. In abuse, you aren’t asked… your body is invaded without your permission or consent.

As a result, as an adult you end up dismissing what you know to be true for you. On the show I shared a couple of tools to that help you listen to what is true for you so you can make decisions from this empowered place. I refer to these 2 tools as: (the one of increasing awareness – 500 million miles…) and “Light and Heavy.” For more information about these tools and how to use them, listen to the recording of the show, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything”: You don’t need to continue living like this: like you’re locked in an invisible cage. You can choose to change this. Once you make that choice, you can always be free.

What do you choose?

The Orgasmic Body

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The Orgasmic Body

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Pleasure? Orgasm? Joy? If you experienced childhood sexual abuse, these words may seem foreign. And they may even seem an impossibility. This is because during childhood sexual abuse, your body, energy and space are invaded. The experience can become too painful to tolerate. There is fear, confusion, shock, and in many cases dissociation. This is when you check out and split off your awareness from what is going on in your body. As a result you may now find yourself closed off to feeling anything: pain and pleasure.

Your body, your sexualness and your relationships are all impacted by the insidious ghost of abuse. Your abuse is still controlling you, even though it was years ago. Dissociation locks in your body all the pain and shame. You then struggle with opening up to receiving any kind of support, pleasure and intimacy. This causes great challenges in your relationships, your health, your finances and specifically your body. So what do you do to take the control back? How do you unlock your body from this pain so you can begin to enjoy being you and being in your body?

Join us for this revolutionary conversation in which we answer these
questions and more in my upcoming radio show, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything,” on June 17th @ 10am PST/1pm EST. I’ll be joined by Dr. Dain Heer, Co-Founder of Access Consciousness and author of, “Being You Changing the World.” Dain will share his own unique perspective on how he overcame his abuse and went on to experience greater pleasure, joy and the “orgasmic body.” For more information please visit my website Dr. Lisa Cooney.

Radically Alive Relationships: From Connection to Communion By Dr. Lisa Cooney

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The fantasy of Prince Charming and Happily Ever After create a false foundation for relationship.

This fantasy has you…

1. Enter into relationship with false assumptions and false personas. 

As a result you develop “points of connection” that keep you from being your

authentic magical self.

2. Look to relationship as a source of security and status to establish stability in your life.

As a result you develop “stability points” that keep you locked in your own cage.

3. Say to each other things like, “Don’t leave me,” and “Don’t change.” 

As a result you limit yourself as you try to keep your partner locked in their cage.

All of this is a set up for failure.

When you’ve experienced abuse, you tend to re-create these patterns in your relationships. This can range from the dramatic to the subtle. The subtlest yet most pervasive pattern of abuse is “divorcing yourself.”

In other words: your needs and desires aren’t considered in your relationship – by you or your partner. You base your relationship on the lie that you don’t matter. Relationship ends up being a job or something you tolerate rather than a joy and something that enlivens you.

So how do you move beyond the points of connection and stability points?

How do you create a radically alive relationship?

Join me and Special Guest Susan Lazer Hart for my radio show, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything,” and discover the path to right relationship that is enlivening and limitless.
Click here for more information and read the official article here. 

Simone Milasas, Author of “Joy of Business” Join Host, Dr. Lisa Cooney

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Simone Milasas, Director of multiple companies, Worldwide Coordinator of Access Consciousness, and Author of “Joy of Business” will appear on Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything new episode “Creating From More: From Debt to Money Play“ with Dr. Lisa Cooney on Voice America’s Radio Network Tuesday, July 8th at 10 am PST/1 pm EST.

Simone Milasas went from being $187,000 in debt to owning several successful businesses. She is now a business mentor, showing other business owners how to move past their limitations around money and into the joy, creativity and abundance that is possible. Through her book, classes, and speaking, she shows people how to shift out of the mindset that work is hard, and into the perspective that business can be a fun adventure.

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She will be joining the host, Dr. Lisa Cooney, in a radical and revolutionary conversation about “Creating From More: From Debt to Money Play.” Together, they will show you ways to create business beyond what this reality says is possible. You’ll leave the show with dynamically effective tools to create what you know is possible for your business.

Join us for our weekly interactive shows and learn how to move beyond childhood sexual abuse to create a more meaningful and joyful life.

In our show, you’ll learn how pervasive abuse is, and how it may be impacting your life today. You’ll also discover the possibilities that arise when this topic, shrouded in so much shame, is brought into the mainstream conversation.

Dr. Lisa will interview top leaders to provide expert input on different areas of abuse. You don’t need to be a slave to your abuse anymore. Instead, join us for this show and discover the key to unlocking yourself from the invisible cage you’ve been living in, so you can move forward to create a limitless life for yourself. Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything is broadcast live every Tuesday at 10 AM Pacific Time, on the VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel.

The Choice Is Yours By Dr. Lisa Cooney

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On Tuesday, we kicked off my new radio show on Voice America called, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything.”

I declared that “the revolution is here.”

Being in this conversation about childhood sexual abuse is a revolution! We’re talking about a topic that has been shunned, dismissed, and hidden for far too long.

By speaking about this, and bringing forth the secrets, we are putting an end to the silence. We are putting an end to the shame. And we are creating a whole new possibility for moving beyond abuse.

I want you to be able to benefit from the insights, tips, and tools that I shared on the live show. So here are some gems from the revolutionary conversation:

The events of abuse get locked in your body and block you from living a joyful life. This is why it feels like you’re locked in an invisible cage that doesn’t have a key… your body has become the cage, holding in all these secrets, memories, and fear.

Your body also takes on energies, emotions, and beliefs that belong to your perpetrator.

You know that constant feeling of shame you carry around, like you’re the one who has done something wrong?

This doesn’t belong to you: it belongs to the person or people who abused you.

On the show I introduced listeners to something called “The Clearing Statement,” which is an Access Consciousness tool. This releases these energies that aren’t yours from your body.

I used this tool on the show to support callers in releasing old trauma and abuse that has been stored in their bodies for decades. Both the callers and the listeners benefit from this powerful tool.

In abuse, you aren’t asked… your body is invaded without your permission or consent.

As a result, as an adult you end up dismissing what you know to be true for you.

On the show I shared a couple of tools to that help you listen to what is true for you so you can make decisions from this empowered place.

I refer to these 2 tools as: (the one of increasing awareness – 500 million miles…) and “Light and Heavy.”

For more information about these tools and how to use them, listen to the recording of the show, “Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything”:

You don’t need to continue living like this: like you’re locked in an invisible cage. You can choose to change this. Once you make that choice, you can always be free.

What do you choose?

 

Join us for our weekly interactive shows and learn how to move beyond childhood sexual abuse to create a more meaningful and joyful life.

In our show, you’ll learn how pervasive abuse is, and how it may be impacting your life today. You’ll also discover the possibilities that arise when this topic, shrouded in so much shame, is brought into the mainstream conversation.

Dr. Lisa will interview top leaders to provide expert input on different areas of abuse. You don’t need to be a slave to your abuse anymore. Instead, join us for this show and discover the key to unlocking yourself from the invisible cage you’ve been living in, so you can move forward to create a limitless life for yourself. Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything is broadcast live every Tuesday at 10 AM Pacific Time, on the VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel.

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