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Conversations With Sex Geeks

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Conversations With Sex Geeks

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The Tantric Lounge is back for it’s third season! And this time we’re having a lot of interesting conversations – with Sex Geeks! Your host Jacqueline Hellyer, is definitely a Sex Geek, fascinated by sex in all it’s aspects, from the physical, to the social to the spiritual. Each week in this season she and her co-host, Xavier Waterkeyn will be chatting with interesting people on fascinating topics.

They started last week with the first episode where Jacqueline interviewed her co-host, Xavier about his work as a Brain Coach and how that relates to Sex Coaching. This week they are talking to Cyndi Darnell about The Anatomy of Sex, and in particular Cyndi’s work on producing a comprehensive atlas of human sexual anatomy. The week after they’ll be talking to futurist, Ross Dawson, on the Future of Sex.

So join us each week down on The Tantric Lounge, where we talk Sex, Science and Spirituality!

Black Belt in the Bedroom On-Line Program Released! By Jacqueline Hellyer

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Black Belt in the Bedroom On-Line Program Released! By Jacqueline Hellyer

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I’ve run the men’s workshop Black Belt in the Bedroom twenty times over the past six years, and it’s been fantastic! With feedback like: 

“In the short time since the Black Belt seminar, my partner has said that our sex has turned “180 degrees”, and that you are a “miracle worker” !”
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“Black Belt in the Bedroom was the most amazingly useful workshop I have ever done!”

But only local men could attend, and not everyone feels comfortable going to a workshop. So…I’ve released the same content as a four-week on-line program! Now in your own time, in the privacy of your own home, anywhere in the world, you can access this same great information to help you become a great lover, the kind of man who brings out the best in a woman. 

Each week of this program you get access to exclusive information in three videos plus support audio and written material.

Week 1: Being A Man
#1 The Yin and Yang of Manliness
#2 Solo-Cultivation
#3 Q&A

Week 2: Understanding Woman
#1 The Intoxicating, Infuriating Nature of Woman
#2 Keep Her Simmering
#3 Q&A

Week 3: Making Love to a Woman
#1 Real sex, it’s not a performance
#2 “The Manual” (or as close to one as you’re gonna get)
#3 Q&A

Week 4: Riding the Tantric Wave
#1 The Art of Sex
#2 Get to the Horny Face 
#3 Be A Black Belt in the Bedroom

There are countless sex tips and tricks books (if you want to settle for being a yellow belt) but they miss out on the essence of what it takes to be a black belt in the bedroom. I’m not talking to little boys about how to get laid. This is not white belt land!

I’ve actually got a black belt in Aikido, so I like the analogy that being a great lover is like being a great martial artist, you have to work at it to hone your ability. And the martial arts are surprisingly like sex, in terms of feeling and flowing with the energy of your partner.

In this program we  look at sex from a scientific point of view as well as an energetic point of view. I use Taoist and Tantric concepts that are applicable to sex in the modern world.

You’ll learn Tantric Sex for men, how to make awesome love to a woman, and how to have better sex and last longer in bed!

If you want to master anything, you have to work at it, you have to study and learn and practice – and I reckon sex would have to be one of the best things to study and practice! 

The women of the world want you to be the best man you can be and the best lover you can be. So for the cost of less than one private session with me:

Do the women of the world a favour, do your woman a favour – become a great lover, a Black Belt in the Bedroom …

…it could be the best thing you ever do! Click here to register!

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Want to learn more, tune in for the The Tantric Lounge, every Thursday at 5 PM Pacific on VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel with renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, in the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to complete empowerment: your sexuality! The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true understanding and liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker. Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and above all inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with engaging guests from the leading edge of sexuality, as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy. Discover your sexual potential, become truly empowered and get more out of your sex life than you ever imagined!

Seven Sex Goddesses By Jacqueline Hellyer

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Seven Sex Goddesses By Jacqueline Hellyer

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At last, my long awaited book of education erotica for women is released!

Seven Sex Goddesses – sexual reawakening for today’s woman

Yes, six long years in the making, with the help and feedback of so many of my female clients and workshop participants, here is the book that can reawaken the awesome power and beauty of your female sexuality (or your partner’s)! You’ll meet the Lady, the Amazon, the Bawd, the Madonna, the Seductress, the Maestra and the Earth Gypsy – and come to feel the fundamental psychic energies they represent.

By drawing on their energetic expression, you can become more sexually confident and expressive and have more sexual desire and greater sexual response!  Each Goddess is accompanied by a fictional, historical erotic story to convey the feeling of these energies in a way that is accessible for you as a modern-day woman. Then through 24 illustrative stories you’ll also follow the experiences of three fictional modern women as they experience the energy of each Goddess in their lives. 

I call it educational erotica – written to educate and inspire! As far as I’m aware, no other book like this has ever been written. I’m really proud of this book, and I don’t say that easily. I’m so pleased and excited that this book and the inspiration and enlightenment it contains can now enter widely into the world! It’s available exclusively from my website. Click here to purchase your copy now!

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Want to learn more about Jacqueline Hellyer, Tune in with her popular radio show “The Tantric Lounge: Sex, Science, and Spirituality” Listen in for her latest episode “Meet the Seven Goddesses of Sex” on the VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel. On this show we’re not interviewing a Sex Geek, we’re talking to Seven Sex Goddesses! Or at least, Jacqueline is introducing us to the concept of the Seven Goddesses of Sex and how accessing their energies can help modern women come into the fullness of their gorgeous sexuality, with stronger self-image, more desire and greater sexual response! I’ve been working on this concept for over six years and I’ve just released the book. Each Goddess is accompanied by a fictional, historical erotic story to convey the feeling of these energies in a way that is accessible for modern-day woman. Then through 24 illustrative erotic stories readers follow the experiences of three fictional modern women as they experience the energy of each Goddess in their lives. I call it educational erotica – written to educate and inspire!

Join renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, in the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to complete empowerment: your sexuality! The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true understanding and liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker. Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and above all inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with engaging guests from the leading edge of sexuality, as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy.

 

Make Sex Your Hobby! By Jacqueline Hellyer

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Make Sex Your Hobby! By Jacqueline Hellyer

Flowers in bloom - flower festival Baguio City, PhilippinesWhat is a hobby? According to the dictionary it’s “an activity done regularly in one’s leisure time for pleasure.” That sounds like sex and intimacy to me! We all know that it’s good for couples to have a mutual hobby – cooking, gardening, sport, travel, outdoor recreation, decorating, traveling, study. It gives them something to talk about together, to experiment with and to enjoy together. You’re having sex anyway, so why not give it the same focus and attention that you give any hobby? When you acknowledge that sex and intimacy is or can be your mutual hobby, then you can approach it like any other hobby – enjoyably! There is enjoyment in the thinking about it, the planning, the discussing, the reflecting, the researching, and of course, in the doing. It’s just as if, say, scuba diving were your mutual hobby. In that case you’d do courses together, set aside time to go diving, plan your dive trips, enjoy talking about the diving afterwards.

You’d read books or blogs, listen to podcasts and watch videos about diving. You’d buy diving equipment and browse online diving websites to find out more. You’d have friends who were interested in diving too and you could enjoy talking with them about diving and share diving advice and experiences, you might even go diving together. Now substitute the words ‘have sex’  or ‘be intimate’ for ‘dive’, and it’s pretty much the same. Obviously for most people, although not all, having sex is a private activity, so the ‘going diving with friends’ side of things might not apply – but you can still talk about sex with friends. I always encourage people to talk more freely and positively about sex with their friends, to help break the silence around what people really do and feel about sex, and to get people talking about sex as though it were a normal part of life, rather than some hidden secret.

When sex is your hobby it’s much easier to talk about it. You don’t have to be a complete sex geek like me. For me sex is more than a hobby, it’s a calling. I never get tired of the topic, I find it endlessly fascinating. It can be for you too, when you make it your hobby.

There’s so much to explore and experience… Listen in to The Tantric Lounge Radio Show to find out more…

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Join renowned sex educator,sex talk radio host, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, in the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to complete the empowerment of your sexuality The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true understanding and liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker. Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and above all inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with engaging guests from the leading edge of sexuality, as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy. Discover your sexual potential, become truly empowered and get more out of your sex life than you ever imagined! The Tantric Lounge, Thursdays at 5 PM Pacific on VoiceAmerica Empowerment.

Busting Tantra Myths by Jacqueline Hellyer

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T.LoungeThe Tantric Lounge is back for its second season, sponsored by the fabulous folk at Lelo, the world’s leading designer brand for intimate products.  The Tantric Lounge remains a sleaze-free zone, devoted to beauty and meaning in sex, love and intimacy – this is where sex is an art and sex is a science.

But it’s not just about sex, at least, not just about what so many people think Tantric sex is about. So in this episode Jacqueline Hellyer and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn are doing some Tantric myth-busting!

Is Tantra some weird hippie practice that involves hours of sex and kinky orgies?

Or is it an approach to living, a way of being in the world that encompasses sexuality rather than marginalizing it or trying to ‘transcend’ it?

Find out  at The Tantric Lounge, on Voice America’s Empowerment Channel.

 

 

How Do You Bring Up Your Kids With A Positive Attitude to Sex? By Jacqueline Hellyer

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How Do You Bring Up Your Kids With A Positive Attitude to Sex? By Jacqueline Hellyer

Parents TalkingIt’s a challenge every parent has to face and it’s not an easy one!  How do you raise your kids to have a positive and healthy attitude sex? Tune in to The Tantric Lounge to find out…

Here’s a post from my own Tantric Lounge Blog , which will give you some insight into what we discuss on the show:

I remember when my eldest son came home from school one day when he was five, giggling and snickering and asking us if we had (giggle giggle, cover mouth, snicker): “S…!?” He was absolutely stunned when we replied: “Yes, that’s Mummy and Daddy’s Cuddle Time.”

You see, we’d brought him up to know that Mummy and Daddy have Cuddle Time, and when we have Cuddle Time we make lots of love for each other and for the whole family. He loved cuddles, so that made sense, and he was quite happy to watch Thomas the Tank Engine or build really big space stations out of Lego on a Sunday morning while Mummy and Daddy had cuddle time. So he had a lot of trouble reconciling the good, positive Cuddle Time he knew about, with the tawdry, naughty “S” his classmates were snickering about. I was so pleased that his first understanding of sex was the positive Cuddle Time, and not the negative “S”.

My younger two children have been brought up the same way, and now that they range in age from 10 to 18 I like to think they have a positive attitude towards sex and their own sexuality.

I bring this up because I got some flack on the net recently for comments I made during an interview with a journalist from a teenage girls’ magazine. In the published article I talked about orgasms, and also said that when sex is good it’s very, very good and when it’s bad it’s horrid.

I believe that now, more than ever, children and adolescents need to be better educated about sex. In the old days we didn’t get a lot of information – at best we got reproduction education, not sex education, it was all about how to have babies and not have babies, nothing about pleasure, love, eroticism – so we had to figure it out for ourselves.

These days, if the kids aren’t getting good information from school or parents, they look on the net, at porn, and they think that this is sex. No one is telling our young people that porn is only supposed to be visually titillating – it’s all about what looks good, not what feels good. So young people are behaving in ways that replicate what they see porn stars doing. Believe me, I see clients like this all the time. It’s worrying.

So, if they’re not getting information on how to have good quality, life-enhancing, positive sex from their educators and parents, where are they going to get it? If their only choice is the sterile information about reproduction and disease they get from educators or (in their eyes) the far more interesting and acceptable information they get from porn, well, it seems that a lot of them are going for the latter.

We need to bring up our young people to have a positive attitude to sex, to feel good about their bodies, and understand that our bodies and our sexuality can bring us great pleasure and enhance our health and well-being. They need to understand so that they make correct decisions for themselves about when they start to be sexually active, why they choose to be sexually active, and with whom.

I fully believe that if young people are well informed, they will feel empowered to wait until the time is right for them. They will know that their sexuality is a good and powerful thing, and they will use it in a positive way to enhance their lives, however that may manifest for them as individuals with their own unique sexuality.

Given the current ‘porn star VS prude’ approach to sex in our society – where you’re either supposed to be out there having crazy sex or you’re the prude who thinks sex is somehow ‘wrong’ – this is a big ask. It’s particularly big given that so many adults have issues around their own sexuality.

As I often say, it’s very hard to have a positive sexuality in this society. I believe we owe it to ourselves and we owe it our children to work on our own attitudes to our own sexuality, as individuals and as parents, so that we can pass this on to our children, through modeling a positive attitude and through giving them good positive helpful information.

Because in this porn-filled society, God knows, our young people need it.

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Living La Vida Tantrica By Jacqueline Hellyer

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couple kissingWe Westerners love to put things in boxes, especially sex  sex is something different from life, something ‘other’. So people tend to think that Tantric Sex is replacing the ‘sex’ box with the ‘Tantric sex’ box.  If Tantra is more about life than just about sex, then what is a Tantric Life? How do you live La Vida Tantrica? In this episode Jacqueline and Xavier look at how you live outside the ‘automaton’ life so many people lead these days and start ‘Tantracizing’ life so that you experience the profound in the everyday. To use one of Xavier’s lovely analogies “What’s the Tantra Dust recipe?” Tune in find out…

Tune in for Jacqueline Hellyer’s new episode “Living La Vida Tantrica.” on The Tantric Lounge every Thursday 5pm Pacific Time on the Voiceamerica Empowerment Channel. You can also listen to her past shows on demand.

Tantric LoungeJoin renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, in the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to complete empowerment: your sexuality! The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true understanding and liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker. Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and above all inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with engaging guests from the leading edge of sexuality, as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy. Discover your sexual potential, become truly empowered and get more out of your sex life than you ever imagined! The Tantric Lounge, Thursdays at 5 PM Pacific on VoiceAmerica Empowerment.

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The Thinking Person’s Sexpert – that’s what one listener calls Jacqueline Hellyer! It’s true, this show is not for the intellectually lazy – Jacqueline challenges you to think. She and her co-host, Xavier Waterkeyn, have started their radio show, The Tantric Lounge, by busting sex myths that permeate our society, myths that are so engrained we don’t even realise they’re not true. And they’re replacing that misinformation with alternatives that are enlightened, positive, and will take you on a journey to realness and sexual empowerment.  Jacqueline will make you feel too. Part of each show is practical, as she guides you through practices to help you become more present and able to use your sexual energy – leading to a greater understanding of yourself, and a greater ability to connect with a partner. Last week’s episode was “Why Are Humans So Sexy”, looking at the surprising reasons why humans evolved to be so sexual. This coming well is devoted to men and masculinity – what does it really mean to be a man, and how does that translate to being an awesome lover?  Tune in to find out, on The Tantric Lounge…

Jacqueline Hellyer

Jacqueline Hellyer is one of Australia’s foremost experts in sex, love and intimacy as well as the host of The Tantric Lounge on the VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel.  She’s a Sex Geek, unabashedly fascinated by sex, love and intimacy in all its aspects from the biological to the psychological to the spiritual.

Educator, therapist, coach, author, blogger, workshop presenter and speaker, Jacqueline brings her extensive knowledge and experience to her work, combining the wisdom of the ancients with the best of modern scientific practice. Best of all, she shares what she knows in an incredibly open, playful and inspiring way.

“Sex is a celebration of life and our sexual energy is our fundamental life energy. Yet we live in a sexually dysfunctional society with millions of people confused, misinformed and struggling with their sexuality.”

“I’m committed to enabling women, men and couples to become fully in touch with their sexuality so that they can use this powerful energy for personal growth and transformation, allowing them to rise out of the mire of what passes for sex in our sexually immature society, and create extraordinary lives for themselves.”

“My job is to be a ‘light in the darkness’ to help guide people to fulfill their sexual potential and become truly empowered!”

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