Who do you trust? Does the mere thought of trusting someone, even yourself, strike fear in your heart? Discover in this show what body system is affected by this category of trust and stay tuned to the end of the show for a custom Healing Code.
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âDo not trust the horse, Trojans! Whatever that is, I fear the Greeks, even when bearing gifts.â Zahra Hasanian and Brigitte Jia head up this installment of Express Yourself!â¢ about trust. Thirteen year old Jack Pawlakos debuts filling in for his older brother Alex in Health Rap relating the importance of the doctor/patient relationship. Cryptozoologist and field investigator for the Centre for Fortean Zoology, Ken Gerhard, lights up the airwaves with his true tales of A Menagerie of Mysterious Beasts, including Big Foot, Nessie, and more.
Pat Present reporter, Chelsea Pelchat, compares Machiavelli with Richard III as we look at the past to understand today. Book Smart reporter, Maria Wong, looks at the book of a former guest Lies I Told by Michelle Zink to discuss the gift of trust. The take away from todayâs program indicates that trust is a very crucial element of the human relationship but it is gift to be earned, not given.
Jack Pawlakos is an eighth grade student at Joaquin Moraga Middle School. He enjoys music and has been playing blues harmonica for over five years. In 2015, he was awarded a youth recipient grant from the Society for the Preservation and Advancement of the Harmonica. He likes to spend time with friends and hike outdoors. His radio reporter brothers are Alex and Eric.
Bio: Ken Gerhard
Ken Gerhard is a widely recognized cryptozoologist and field investigator for the Centre for Fortean Zoology as well as a fellow of the Pangea Institute and consultant for several research organizations. He has traveled the world searching for evidence of mysterious animals and legendary beasts including Bigfoot, the Loch Ness Monster, the Chupacabra, enigmatic winged creatures and even werewolves.
In addition to co-hosting the History Channel television series Missing in Alaska, Ken has appeared in three episodes of the series Monster Quest and is featured in the History Channel special The Real Wolfman, as well as Ancient Aliens (History Channel), Legend Hunters (Travel Channel), Unexplained Files (Science Channel), Paranatural (National Geographic), Weird or What? with William Shatner (Syfy), True Monsters (History Channel), Monsters and Mysteries in America (Animal Planet), Ultimate Encounters (Tru TV), True Supernatural (Destination America), Monster Project (Nat Geo Wild) and Shipping Wars (A&E).
His credits include appearances on numerous news broadcasts and nationally syndicated radio programs. . Ken is author of the books Big Bird: Modern Sightings of Flying Monsters and Encounters with Flying Humanoids, as well as co-author of Monsters of Texas. www.kengerhard.com
Newest book, A Menagerie of Mysterious Beasts
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How do you build high performing teams? Â How do you build trust? Â How can you become corporate athletes?
This is about what it takes to build teams and lead them in todayâs business world. Â This isnât about authority, it is about influence. Â This is about the Law of Solid Ground. Â And understanding that trust is something you have to earn as a leader. Â And knowing when to train, perform, celebrate and rest to be a corporate athlete. Â Because this is a marathon not a sprint. Â And the 4 stages of team performance: form, storm, norm and perform. Â And knowing what stage you are in and how to get to the next one.
Building trust is step one. Â According to John C Maxwell’s book “The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership”, trust is the foundation of leadership. Â He talks about the Law of Solid Ground. And that to build trust a leader must exemplify the qualities of: Â competence, connection and character. Â People will forgive occasional mistakes based on ability, especially if they see that you are still growing as a leader. Â However you need to own up to it and make sure it doesnât happen again.
How do you build trust in an organization? Â How do you know you are on Solid Ground?
Go through “The Trust Check List” and evaluate your ability to adhere Â to certain behaviors. Â These behaviors if followed consistently, can help to build trust. Â And here they are:
1. Keep promises and honor commitments?
2. Acknowledge and apologize for your mistakes?
3. Remain loyal to the absent?
4. Share information, both positive and negative, with the people who need it?
5. Involve others in decisions that affect them?
6. Give credit where credit is due?
7. Communicate consistently, regardless of the situation or the personâs authority or influence?
8. Honor confidential and sensitive information?
And even with the foundation of trust teams go through 4 stages before they really get to performance: Â form, storm, norm and perform. Â And you can’t skip a stage. Â You need to go through each one. Â And when you add a new team member that team has to go through it all again…..so what are the stages and how do you get through them?
Forming – this is the stage where you are just getting to know each other and everyone is polite and has not figured out how to challenge the leader or the team. Â This stage may feel very nice but it can get you into trouble as I learned when I was working in advertising. Â The team was so new that we did not know how to challenge the advertising campaign that was being created. Â It led us to make the worst advertising campaign I have ever been associated with…I wish we had known about the 4 stages of team performance.
Storming – this can be the scariest stage. This occurs when people start to challenge the leadership, the other team members, begin to jockey for position. There is a lot of tension and it is best if someone helps the team to get through the storm. Â To use this as an opportunity to create some “rules of engagement”. Â People need to be able to challenge the work, the direction of the team. Â This is really for the purpose of making it better. Â Keep it out of the personal and focus on the work or task at hand. Â If you are a team that can storm well you will get to a high performing team that will exceed expectations.
Norming – now we are all starting to calm down, settle into our roles and forgive each other’s little idiosyncrasies. Â At this stage you are now able to focus on the work and not be distracted by the little things. Â You understand each other better and have come to appreciate your differences and how this adds to the final product.
Performing – now this is the stage, this occurs when the team has gelled and come together and knows each other so well that you can almost anticipate things they may say or recognize that their insight will take an idea to the next level. Â I had the opportunity to lead a team like this and we increased revenue for our company for our clients and won awards for our product. Â I don’t even think we realized at the time what we could accomplish. Â It doesn’t happen often but when it does it is magic.
So now how do you make sure that your team doesn’t burn out. Â What can we learn from athletes?
We need to train, perform, celebrate and recover. Â In the corporate world we do not always take the time to celebrate even if it isn’t a 100% win but to at least take a pause and say what we did well and what we learned so we can apply it to the next challenge. And we do not rest. We do not recover. Â We spend most of our time in the perform cycle 12 – 14 hours a day – this will burn you out. As a leader give yourself and your team permission to rest to recover. I did and it worked. We had off-sites outside skiing or hiking and no business just fun – this is how we recovered as corporate athletes.
Building and leading high performing teams is not easy but it can be done. Â Start with trust the foundation of leadership. Â Make sure you are on Solid Ground by adhering to your Trust Check List. And then evaluate which stage of performance your team is in and get them through it. And don’t forget to celebrate and rest. Â Remember this is a marathon not a sprint.
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7/15/15 – Fear and Trust
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Pleasure? Orgasm? Joy?Â If you experienced childhood sexual abuse, these words may seemÂ foreign. And they may even seem an impossibility.Â This is because during childhood sexual abuse, your body, energyÂ and space are invaded. The experience can become too painful toÂ tolerate. There is fear, confusion, shock, and in many casesÂ dissociation. This is when you check out and split off your awarenessÂ from what is going on in your body.Â As a result you may now find yourself closed off to feeling anything:Â pain and pleasure.
Your body, your sexualness and your relationships are all impactedÂ by the insidious ghost of abuse. Your abuse is still controlling you,Â even though it was years ago.Â Dissociation locks in your body all the pain and shame.Â You then struggle with opening up to receiving any kind of support,Â pleasure and intimacy.Â This causes great challenges in your relationships, your health, yourÂ finances and specifically your body.Â So what do you do to take the control back? How do you unlockÂ your body from this pain so you can begin to enjoy being you andÂ being in your body?
Join us for this revolutionary conversation in which we answer these
questions and more in my upcoming radio show, âBeyond Abuse,Â Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything,â on June 17th @ 10am PST/1pmÂ EST.Â Iâll be joined by Dr. Dain Heer, Co-Founder of Access ConsciousnessÂ and author of, âBeing You Changing the World.â Dain will share hisÂ own unique perspective on how he overcame his abuse and went onÂ to experience greater pleasure, joy and the âorgasmic body.âÂ For more information please visit my websiteÂ Dr. Lisa Cooney.